Quote...

"She sighed. 'it's the same thing we were talking about.
I hurt people, trying to save myself.
but there I was, madly in love...so what was I to do?
There simply isn't any choice when you know
you have to do something.
So you inflict the hurt, and you smooth it as much as you can by saying
"this is MY fault, not yours...
and it works out.
You get through the pain, and it works out.
In my case i found incredible happiness."

From the book Find A Stranger, Say Goodbye

wut does that sound like?
its just more proof that we CAN do this
u kno hoo u r...
we can get through it